Note to self:

[hypatia42]

Just because someone is willing to break their own rules does not mean that the rules have changed. Stop thinking too much and get on with your day.

Comments

[hypatia42.livejournal.com]

Nonono, 3rd degree Initiate in B* calling my honey an initiate despite him not even being a student. Describing how people are lumped in together even by us.

[eolas16.livejournal.com]

Hah, I get it now. Yeah, it's funny how that works. Welcome to expectation of homogenization!

[ingridsummers.livejournal.com]

Don't know all the facts, but I suspect that folks assume he's an Initiate because he kind-of acts like a grown-up AND steps in to do things when they are needed. That how many expect initiates to act.

Is one of the 3rd's my spouse? It wouldn't surprise me.

[hypatia42.livejournal.com]

now that you mention it yes. I wasn't going to name names though

[jasminewind.livejournal.com]

I think there is some neophyte blowback that effects spouses. T is much transformed after mine.

[hypatia42.livejournal.com]

I agree. The Honey is a different person after my Neophyte as well. Makes sense that they would have to go through transformation as well if the relationship is to grow with the Neophyte growing.

However this is not what has effected this issue. The gent in question has been assuming the Honey is an Initiate since I was a Dedicant.