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[hypatia42]

I've run into this a bit in the past few months. Why is it odd for a woman to want to be in a threesome with two men but it is completely normal and accepted for a woman, or a man for that matter, to want to be in a threesome with two women? Are bi-sexual males that rare?

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[hypatia42.livejournal.com]

I dunno but it bothers me to hear people say things like, "Why would you want that?" or "Huh, I guess that sort of desire surprises me coming from you." As if all women are bi and secretly want a MFF threesome. Would it be more ok coming from a bi male?

[ladybarnard.livejournal.com]

That is flat-out ridiculous. As if every male over the age of 12 hasn't had the two-women fantasy at some point or another. Why shouldn't we get equal time?

[siriciryon.livejournal.com]

The standard answer is "Because women are allowed to have sex with other women until a guy shows up, and then the women should both be having sex with him" and related (she-A can get her-B ready for him, etc.)
It's not fair, it's not sane, but I hear more about men getting killed for being gay than women being killed for being lesbians.
I'm also more afraid of being raped by a man than a woman.
And yes, the widespread belief/wish is that all women are bi. Not that that has basis in reality; just that the prevalence and reinforcement on the two-women fantasy depends on that belief.

[hypatia42.livejournal.com]

Biologically it makes more sense to me for there to be two men. This may be lack of participatory understanding though.

[siriciryon.livejournal.com]

If the object, biologically, is to get pregnant, yes.
If the object, biologically, is to get pregnant with specific male X's child, then, MFF makes more sense, if you go the threesome route; likewise, lots of monogamous sex also makes sense.

[(Anonymous)]

Not even thinking biological imperative to procreate. Simple hydraulics. A woman can be ready for more sex than a man can. Not all women, and even then there is a limit. But you must admit a certain recharge time for males.

[hypatia42.livejournal.com]

Apparently the Honey logged me out...

[siriciryon.livejournal.com]

Recharge times vary. I know / know of men who are (or have been at some point - I'm not sure all of them were this way their whole lives) hydraulically ready for seconds and didn't ramp down immediately after orgasm; however, even they admitted they couldn't have orgasmed/ejaculated without some more activity.
So yes normally, but there's a wide damn range of humans.

[hypatia42.livejournal.com]

Hence my confusion.