a plea for my children

[hypatia42]

please don't grow up like I did. I want so much more from you than the treatment I received. I know its hard to believe in your own worth. It took me about 28 years to figure it out. I will believe in you when you can't. I will love you no matter what mistakes you have made trying to figure things out. When things get too hard, reach out to me and I will be there for you. I will help you make the space you need to rest before heading back into the fray. The world is so much bigger than you think it is and there are so many more people out there that will treat you well. There is no reason to pander to people that treat with you one ounce less respect than you deserve.

I remember being bullied. I remember what that bully said, "Because I can." I remember what the teacher said, "Don't let it bother you." I will listen. I will believe you. I believe you are worth more than you ever dreamed possible. You think I am the coolest auntie ever, just wait til you grow up and I will be the one impressed with how much you have accomplished. Growing up sucks. It gets better. You have to still be around to see it. Its worth the wait.

I love you.