PSA

[hypatia42]

I fight tooth and nail Anyone trying to meet my needs for me. I HATE it. I never ever want anyone else to meet my needs for me. No one knows my needs and how to meet them but me. *I* am responsible for meeting my needs. *I* am responsible for communicating my needs. You are not responsible for my needs. You are responsible for *your* needs. I trust that you are adult enough to know what your needs are, communicate those needs, admit when those needs are not being met, and accept when those needs cannot be met. I also trust you to communicate with me, as reasonably as possible, when you are incapable of doing any of the above.