None of which transfers over into LJ so it's impossible for the folks above to get a good vibe for the situation.
Yes and I get the feeling I need to make a post about questions posed in my lj. They are mostly questions I need to ponder for myself.
As for A and yourself, you both use it differently. Neither in a derisive manner but the other wasn't used that way either. I will admit that having "skank" applied to me made me notice more the other derogatory words people use to describe me. Even if done in a loving manner, it says something.
A didn't start using that on me until she started to get to know my poly habits. Makes me curious. Me having an open process for things means that I have to deal with others processing through their feelings on my process... Wow that is kind of a profound statement there. Kinda round about but it says a lot.
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Date: 2008-07-14 09:54 pm (UTC)Yes and I get the feeling I need to make a post about questions posed in my lj. They are mostly questions I need to ponder for myself.
As for A and yourself, you both use it differently. Neither in a derisive manner but the other wasn't used that way either. I will admit that having "skank" applied to me made me notice more the other derogatory words people use to describe me. Even if done in a loving manner, it says something.
A didn't start using that on me until she started to get to know my poly habits. Makes me curious. Me having an open process for things means that I have to deal with others processing through their feelings on my process... Wow that is kind of a profound statement there. Kinda round about but it says a lot.