in MN again

I've been a skoshe(sp?) out of touch in the past two weeks. What with packing, then being out of town, and now trying to reintegrate myself back into life here. Still tire easily but I'm actually sitting at my computer! Checking emails and the like has taken some time to deal with.

Things I could never hear again:
"And you say you're not a top."

Ok, so that's only one thing. I may think of others at some point. Maybe I'll just start making a general list of things I could never hear again.

At any rate, I don't remember ever saying such a thing. I must've tho cause I heard it from three different people, one quite a few times. *glare* I wonder if it isn't a definition problem I'm running up against. Discussion will happen.

It was good to get to see and talk with people that I don't get to all that often.

I got emails from people I love that I don't hear from often.

more to say and still no time to say it. trying to recoup energy losses. or at least come back to center?

boxes.

So what do you do when your partner has well and truly ticked you off? I obviously come to my lj. Thoughts of self-deprecating chuckles are being entertained in my head. I reject them. I dislike self-deprecation.

In honor of my last several weeks I give you a running list of boxes I DO fit into;

Oppositional
Independent
"Snob" be it wine, cheese, coffee, liquor I've got it. I figure its just easier to be an overall snob.
Female
Feminine
Masculine
Dancer
Singer
Lover
Texture Whore
Pagan
Healer
*edit* Friend

The Honey and I can't think of any others off hand. I will entertain suggestions of other boxes I DO fit into. It being me I do get final say. I'm not really sure bitchy is a box but I'm not willing to put myself in it if it is.

Is there a real category of anti-boxes or do you think that one is covered by oppositional and/or independent?