I think most people can reflect that question onto their own situation so long as they're in a relationship. Nobody has exactly the same needs, and I'd be surprised if there are very many where the paired sets of needs fully match up.
When I ask the same question, I usually find myself following it, koan style, with "I am so lucky."
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Date: 2007-06-25 05:38 pm (UTC)Nobody has exactly the same needs, and I'd be surprised if there are very many where the paired sets of needs fully match up.
When I ask the same question, I usually find myself following it, koan style, with "I am so lucky."