Death in the family (?)

[hypatia42]

The Honey's cousin died. FiL flew to FL with his sister because they knew cousin was being taken off of life support. *sigh* I have precious few details. No sympathies necessary. I detested the woman. My ability to respect her and her choices was almost non-existent. It is bringing up strange echos of my mother's sister who also died young and who's life choices were not respectable. Not quite sure how I'm supposed to be feeling right now.

Comments

[libwitch]

It is ok? normal? acceptable? to feel a loss for those in the family...it is a loss, and those you love hurt as a result. You just don't always have to mourn the loss on a personal level yourself.

Grief is a strange thing.

[hypatia42]

That it is. Very strange.